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Monday, June 24, 2013

Bullying ,.

Hey,hey, hey Happy Monday everyone !

How's your weekend guy's?

I missed to blog over the weekend, due to my busy hmm busy busy-han
sa pagtulog schedule.. ahahhaa..

kidding aside, last Saturday, We went to buy, Ivy's portfolio,.

Actually, I just bought drawing book, and I am the one who put  the design on it..

May pagkaresourseful lang ng konti, because I used our

unused Christmas gift wrapper.. haveyy..

the saddest part is, I wasn't able to finish it, dahil sumakit ang ulo
ko at nahilo ako sa pag c cut out.. tsk tsk..

I was supposed to blog about it sana  on Saturday night but  I fall asleep too
because Ivy is  making lambing na tabihan ko raw muna siya sa pag
tulog, until she fall asleep.. so anyare.. pati me I fall asleep early.

When I woke up, It was 10:00 pm na..

so i just wrapped na lang her portfolio and continued the design
the next day..


Moving forward. I told you guy's HERE that Ivy is a victim of bullying.

It happened, when she was in grade 1.

First, her guy classmate pinch him. so pag uwi ko ng house, nagsumbong siya,,
Well, since it's first pa lang, then binigyan ko ng ultimatum yung bata. sinabi ko lang
kay Ivy na magsumbong sa teacher niya, once his classmate did it again.

2nd same guy classmate bit her.. wow.. hindi na tama ata yun,.. So what I did
was, I texted her teacher and informed her what had happened, She replied me back
na pagsasabihan yung bata

3rd. ay hindi na talaga maganda itey.. tinusok na ng pencil sa braso si Ivy,, abah..

So right away nung marinig ko ang sumbong ng anak ko I set an appointment to meet her teacher  and the parent's of  the said student.. ( tapang tapangan lang ang peg ko..)

I still remember our conversation.

Guardian of the boy; Ano nangyari, ano ginawa?
Me; Kinagat lang naman niya ang anak ko, nung una kinurot niya, pinalampas ko lang
dahil bata.Now, kinagat at tusukin  ng pencil ano gagawin mo?
Guardian; baka naman na cu cutean lang sa anak mo..
Me; in my mind.. ( cute your ass.. pamangkin mo kaya ang pakurot ko at pakagat
ko matutuwa ka?)  Okay, andun na tayo, pero hindi naman dapat na manakit.
pano kung mawalan ng gana mag aral yung anak ko , dahil sa kagagawan ng pamang
kin mo? pano?
teacher; ganito nalang po pag usapan niyo kung ano ang dapat na gawin.
guardian. sige miss,, pagsasabihan ko nalang yung pamangkin ko, kakausapin
ko na rin pati Tatay niya, kasi ganito blah blah blah..
Me; Okay, paki pag sabihan na lang, kasi once na maulit pa yan, Sa guidance na
tayo maghaharap... ( ayyy tafang ng peg ko. )

So we ended our conversation in a nice way naman. And napagkasunduan
namin na Once nga na maulit yun ei, Sa guidance na kami maghaharap..

So, I think effective, kasi the boy did not do it again..

Did i make the right decision? I think yes.. It's for my daughter's safety..

 On her 2nd grade naman, aba sinuntok naman ng classmate. so same, what I did
 I reported it to her teacher, talked to the parent.

From then, sinabihan ko si Ivy na gumanti naman kahit pano,,

Me: Ikaw naman kasi gumanti ka naman.
Ivy; Ayoko, baka mapagalitan me ng teacher ko pag nang away me, tsaka bad un db.
Me; sabi ko nga..

BOOM..

I remember I told her before, do not fight with her classmate, be good in school
and dont be Noisy ..

Which is so far, napapanindigan naman niya ang pagiging Most behave Student niya.

Well, the point here is, let's always ask our  kids, what had happen in School.
be open to us, para alam natin kung ano na nangyayari sa kanila inside their classroom.


Have a nice day guy's =)


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